Many parents look so stressed and yet some what successful in some aspects. We need to be happy and unstressful to raise our kids in a happy manner. The characteristics of good parents are designed by the way the kids love us or hate us. The huge contribution made by us to the wonderful world is our kids and their well being. The early childhood is a stage most of the child characteristics is designated says Maria Montessori.
A constant negative abusive or reinforcement family wills yields a negative child who will go to jail. The children are like clay we are the molders’ of that clay, so we are the one who make the child. Gene just decides one percentage of human beings but the way the child is bought when our kids grow up some day they will question of why you didn’t practice what you preached. The main job of our parents love our child him and explain the mistakes he has done without scolding him. Always explain the child with sweetness mixed with facts and logic making the conversation interesting with some examples whenever the child is free he is able to express his thoughts and the child feels the love and respect received from you.
Be very firm with a child especially when he is crying for a particular thing; explain him without beating, scolding. For example: never compromise for a toy, love cannot be measured with a toy which is being provided. Physically hitting the child by parents or teachers can leave him ashamed and give him more negative reinforcements. Many parents and teachers say that they are really stressed by the behavior of the child but please don’t justify. We are actually taking shortcuts to bring all the things right and the short cut is hitting the child. The hit you hit each time really makes the child get used to and alienates the child further.
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